As some of you may or may not know, I also do escorting. Now I started escorting way before doing the porn because let’s face it the economy hasn’t been exactly stellar of late. You have to be in the right mind set for escorting, if you are ashamed in anyway (and you shouldn’t be) then like porn it’s not for you. In doing so, I found out that people really just want to connect with another person. Which brings me to the topic of touch.
Our American society doesn’t really favor touch as many countries do. It’s all about personal space. Do not cross this 3′ barrier or you will be disintegrated. We happen to be social animals… very social animals…and touch happens to be a big part of being human. Studies have shown that if a baby is not held by it’s mother or anyone for that matter that the child will grow up with serious mental problems. So as babies and children we are touched and held by our parents and close relatives, but something goes haywire along the way. Our prudent society butts right in and dictates that as young adults we are not to touch each other…strange right? Unfortunately, what happens is people become less friendly and more aggressive. I’ve had many a client who just wanted to touch me and hold me..that was it. I just find it a bit sad that we don’t touch each other more…and I’m not talking about in a sexual way. I mean hugs or just touching someones arm or hand when speaking with them. I think if we did, we all would be a bit happier and well just more relaxed in general. So let those barriers down.